5 things you need to do for yourself

 5 things you need to do for yourself

We all want to be good, valuable and respected by others. But there are some who cannot do this. They cannot do it because they fail to understand some of the things they need to do for themselves. In the following, you will know 5 things you need to do for yourself to make your life prosperous. The five actions are as follows.

1. Love yourself

Many people always want to be loved, even if they do not care about themselves at all. Before you can be loved by others, you must love yourself. It's not wrong for us to be able to help others, we need to help ourselves to be strong first. If we do not know how to swim, how can we help a drowning person? So in return you need to look at yourself and take good care of yourself both physically and mentally. Every day, you have to clean and decorate your body properly and show your dignified, moral, ethical and lovable attitude.

2. Respect yourself

It sounds a little strange to the ears. We often hear that we respect others, but why should we respect ourselves? Like the first point above, before others respect us, we must first respect ourselves. We respect ourselves by respecting our own decisions, our own words, and our own actions by taking full responsibility for them. Speaking and behaving with dignity is self-respect. When others see us respecting themselves, they will respect us. Instead, imagine that if we do not respect our own words, for example, by the palm of our hand or by breaking a promise, is this self-respect? Clearly, and if we do not respect our own words, who should respect our words?

3. Value and praise yourself

A person who does not know how to value himself will be worthless in the eyes of others as well. We must always love and value ourselves. If we wait for others to value us, we will be disappointed. Why disappoint? Because everyone has a different opinion of us. For example, this person thinks we are good, but he thinks we are bad. So you are a noble person, worthy of respect or not, part of that is up to you. The question to ask yourself now is, "Do you know how to make yourself worthwhile?"

4. Forgive yourself

We all know that there is no human being who has never made a mistake. But there are some who do not know how to tolerate themselves. They keep blaming themselves for causing emotional problems. We must learn to forgive ourselves. But this does not mean that we find excuses to cover up our mistakes. What we do wrong, we must take responsibility for. Taking responsibility for that mistake is to value and tolerate ourselves. So, no matter how big the problem, we must put that mistake aside and work hard to keep going until we reach our goal.

5. Recognize yourself

Self-recognition is essential. People who do not recognize themselves are the most cowardly. This type of person likes to take the life example of others to equip themselves. No matter what our appearance, colour, or lineage, we must acknowledge and enjoy what our parents have to offer. The important thing is not to compare ourselves with others. They are us, we are us, we are not like them because they are not like us. We need to acknowledge the individuality of each person. How they live is their thing, while we need to find out how to live our lives in a way that makes us happy. Finally, remember that if we want to change ourselves for the better, we must first know ourselves. And to know ourselves, we must know ourselves.