5 Signs That You Are Growing Up

 5 Signs That You Are Growing Up

Are you wondering if you are now moving forward or backward? Of course, sometimes we ourselves still do not fully understand this. However, do not worry, you will know five clues that can confirm whether we are growing or not. Do not waste time, please follow all of the following.

1. You are different now from last year

Wrong here means we are growing differently. To find out if we are really on the right path to self-growth, we need to verify that we were a year or three ago and that we are different now. Anyway. Are we healthier or poorer, do we have more wealth, or do we have more debt, do we know more good people, or do we have more bad friends, And do we have more knowledge and skills or are we just getting worse. If you find that you have made good progress, please continue to travel on that path, but if you find that you are on the wrong path, please wake up and change yourself to walk on the right path towards progress.

2. You go through a lot of hardships but refuse to give up

This is a clear sign that you are growing. People who do not struggle are people who do not progress. As you have been told, new, immature wood is a sign of death. Perseverance in performance sometimes, though not very fruitful, at least makes us stronger, this strength leads us to overcome obstacles in the future. All of us, who does not know to achieve their goals are all going through hardships? We all know, right? If success comes easily without effort, then everyone is clear that no one will fail. And if success happens that easily, then success is no longer important. So do not be upset if we are struggling but not getting the results we expect. The fact that we have not yet achieved this does not mean that we have failed, but that it shows that we have not yet reached the limit. Therefore, do not despair and try to keep moving forward.

3. You continue to plan and implement your plan.

The fact that we do not give up our plans and actions is a sign that we are on the right track. Many people can only plan, but very few people can make those plans a success. So do not be fooled into thinking you're great if you've just got a plan on paper. But wait until the plan turns out to be the desired result before showing it to others. At this point, try to look at yourself to see if you are implementing the plan or have abandoned your plan. Remember that giving up your plan is a failure experience. Failed people always give up their work in the middle.

4. You are always optimistic about what you do

When we feel and have hope attached to what we are doing, it means we are growing. On the other hand, if we feel frustrated and dissatisfied with our work, it indicates that we are in trouble. Such a feeling is like a rust that is eating iron. If we refuse to wake up and change, the negative thoughts that linger in our brains will gradually destroy us until we can no longer turn back. Optimism about work is the most important thing. If we think like that, our life will be like that. So think of good things and be more optimistic about yourself and our work.

5. You keep pushing yourself to keep moving forward.

Continuing to motivate and motivate ourselves to keep trying is a clear sign that we are a fruitful people. While everything around us, regardless of time, season, technology, knowledge, and people is constantly evolving, if we stand still, we are no different from the dead. Therefore, no matter how difficult the situation, we must always know how to give strength to ourselves.